You know how when you go to a library and you pull out books in the history section, you can find a million quotes all the way from Shakespeare to Winston Churchill? they quoted some of the best and most powerful words in their Era. So what makes us use them here and today? is it because words are powerful enough to motivate us? if that’s the case? how does it fit into today’s life? i wondered what started it and ended with the thought that, maybe it is because through our life experiences we want to share with others what we’ve been through and learned. Instead of one whole sitting explaining how we came across making our own quotes, we turn them into bite size pieces and let the reader interpret it in their own way. At least, that’s my take on it so what do you think?



Communication, it’s one of those things couples tend to forget to do and then they end up in a tough place in their relationship. If you don’t say how you feel then how can you expect someone to know? yes, people can probably guess how you feel but assumptions never help anyone. In fact, most of the time it just leads to arguments and really nasty breakups. the worst one, is when you want to say something but you are afraid of what response you’ll get so it builds up inside of you so much that you end up saying the wrong things. Then you can’t take it back anymore, so please always say what you feel and let things happen on their own. If you don’t get the response that you want, it’s alright. At least you received your answer and now you can move on.

A twist to my blog

I’ve been writing about love and relationships and it’s been a roller coaster ride. I guess it just has been an emotional three months and so on, but i don’t want to bore you folks so i’m thinking that maybe you can suggest topics for me to write about? i really value your readership 🙂 thank you so much!


It starts with the first word on paper..

Words, we see them everywhere. On newspapers and in the receipt that’s in your hand or a bill that you have on front of you, by themselves they are merely just words put together without meaning. But, then if you join it with other words together, this is when you start creating something. A pair of words start to describe and a set of words start to express, then before long you have created a paragraph and a story is born. The amazing thing about words is, you can influence people with them. If you write about something sad you will have touched someone’s heart in some way, then if you write something inspiring you will have inspired someone to take on a monumental task. There’s no limit to your imagination, you just have to take that first step and set your mind free.


Sharing my words..

Some write because they want to pass the time, then some people like to write for the reason that they want to express how they feel to everyone and maybe find someone they can relate to. I guess you could say, i’m kind of between those two. I enjoy writing because i have so much to say and these days in this changing world, nobody really has the time to sit down and listen anymore. So, this way i can at least tell you a story and you can take it a bit at a time. If it interests you, the story will still be here for you to read. Often it seems as though i am describing people who are actually in my life, but that’s not always the case. The words i put down here are mostly based on what is going on in my life in the form of experiences and emotions, maybe you might be able to relate to some of the things that i write. If that’s the case, i welcome you to share them with me and talk about it. So, again i thank you for your taking the time to read these posts as it gives me the confidence to some day write better stories. Wishing you all nothing but the best, i hope you all reach your dreams and let nothing stop you from achieving them.

Just a thought about love..


The first steps we take, we fall and we stumble. But we always stand right back up and we keep trying even if we hurt ourselves in the process of learning, we scrape our knees when we learn to run but that never stops us from getting right back up again no matter how much the wound hurts us. Maybe we can take a page from our childhood and learn about this in our relationships and the choices we make, we learn to love the ones we feel understand us best. Sometimes when things don’t go the way we hoped it hurts us in our hearts, but despite the pain we feel we still go on. How else, after all would we understand what we desire so much? when we discover this feeling, it’s hard to imagine how we could ever have done without it.


I don't have much but..


I don’t have much, i know. If i had known where my life would bring me to you today i would of done more in the earlier years, then maybe i would be more the man you want me to be. The truth is i have been foolish into thinking that i’d never come close to being around someone like you, someone who could see right into me and see what i really am like and what i have to give. If i had known we’d share something so unique i wouldn’t of done the things that my memories led me to do, the mistakes of saying the wrong words at the worst times and not seeing how you cared about how i felt. But, that’s in the past now and now i want to move on to this next chapter with you. I hope that in this chapter, we will have a better understanding of each other’s hearts and maybe discover the real reason we have met, i can’t think of anything more that i could ever want to do.