Communication..

 

Communication, it’s one of those things couples tend to forget to do and then they end up in a tough place in their relationship. If you don’t say how you feel then how can you expect someone to know? yes, people can probably guess how you feel but assumptions never help anyone. In fact, most of the time it just leads to arguments and really nasty breakups. the worst one, is when you want to say something but you are afraid of what response you’ll get so it builds up inside of you so much that you end up saying the wrong things. Then you can’t take it back anymore, so please always say what you feel and let things happen on their own. If you don’t get the response that you want, it’s alright. At least you received your answer and now you can move on.

A twist to my blog

I’ve been writing about love and relationships and it’s been a roller coaster ride. I guess it just has been an emotional three months and so on, but i don’t want to bore you folks so i’m thinking that maybe you can suggest topics for me to write about? i really value your readership 🙂 thank you so much!

 

Proving yourself beyond material gifts..

If you have doubts in your heart, if you don’t feel you can love like you did because you can’t trust that someone won’t hurt you or make you feel like your life is over. Then you have to calm your heart and accept that relationships aren’t found nor given. They are made together by two complete strangers who are taking a chance to see if there’s something more, there are no guarantees that the relationship will ever work but that’s what it really is in the end. It’s taking chances to see if it will work, i know how easy it is to confuse love with receiving endless gifts and eating at fancy restaurants. But, that doesn’t really prove anything other than that you enjoy a good lifestyle. To really prove your love to someone you have to show genuine interest in their hopes and dreams, listen to them and help them get there even if you gain nothing from it. That’s just the way i see it, the rest is up to you 🙂

 

It starts with the first word on paper..

Words, we see them everywhere. On newspapers and in the receipt that’s in your hand or a bill that you have on front of you, by themselves they are merely just words put together without meaning. But, then if you join it with other words together, this is when you start creating something. A pair of words start to describe and a set of words start to express, then before long you have created a paragraph and a story is born. The amazing thing about words is, you can influence people with them. If you write about something sad you will have touched someone’s heart in some way, then if you write something inspiring you will have inspired someone to take on a monumental task. There’s no limit to your imagination, you just have to take that first step and set your mind free.

 

Think twice before you decide

We can’t take back what was already said and done. It all belongs to the past now and since we can’t take back the past, all we can do is learn from our actions and see what’s up ahead in the future. At least, that’s what i believe is the right thing to do. Not everything ends there however, everything we did then affects how we think and how others see us now. So, think carefully before you speak and think twice before you decide on something unless you’re ready to lose someone down the road. It might even be someone you aren’t quite ready to be without either, then by the time you realize what you have done you will find it’s already too late. So, i hope you’ll never feel the pain of loss because believe me when i say it is profound..

Sharing my words..

Some write because they want to pass the time, then some people like to write for the reason that they want to express how they feel to everyone and maybe find someone they can relate to. I guess you could say, i’m kind of between those two. I enjoy writing because i have so much to say and these days in this changing world, nobody really has the time to sit down and listen anymore. So, this way i can at least tell you a story and you can take it a bit at a time. If it interests you, the story will still be here for you to read. Often it seems as though i am describing people who are actually in my life, but that’s not always the case. The words i put down here are mostly based on what is going on in my life in the form of experiences and emotions, maybe you might be able to relate to some of the things that i write. If that’s the case, i welcome you to share them with me and talk about it. So, again i thank you for your taking the time to read these posts as it gives me the confidence to some day write better stories. Wishing you all nothing but the best, i hope you all reach your dreams and let nothing stop you from achieving them.

When you are judged by people

Have you ever found yourself judged, by someone over something harmless and no matter what you did it just made it worse? i don’t understand why people feel the need to judge others before they have a proper chance to explain themselves. If someone is trying to right a wrong then why would you not give them the chance instead of making a final decision that they are not worth your time? is that really what it all has come down to? making a decision on someone and hoping you’re right? well, it’s not very fair is it? if positions were reversed? wish people would know how much it hurts to do that to someone.

#Dear young self

I saw the trends on twitter just now and a friend of mine had made a post to the hash #dearyoungself so i wondered about that myself. If there was anything i would want to tell my old self, then i thought about one thing, It was to tell my younger self to stop chasing what isn’t meant to be. In my younger years i always pursued relationships that seemed impossible to have a future with and always ended in just disappointments, now i wish i had done something better with my earlier years than wasted it on trying out relationships that ended up in just heartbreaks, just saying!

Even when the story ends

Even when the story has ended between two friends who used to be so much more. The memories still remain between them and though they may deny it. There’s still a part of them holding them together, when we love someone we give a part of ourselves to them. It is called love but we all know that’s not really an accurate description, then as hard as we try to shake it off our minds? we just can’t. I guess some things stay with us for life, even if it’s something we rather not feel because we know where it eventually leads.

Why do we feel

 

Why do we feel the way we do, when we miss someone who isn’t with us anymore and has already left us by heart and mind? when they have already moved on and you have become but a shadow or a passing thought. It doesn’t make sense does it? deep down inside you know that you aren’t where you used to be so why does a part of you still cling on? is it false hope or is it just because when you love someone so much emotionally it becomes a part of you? if that’s the reason then maybe it’s a good thing to hold on to how you feel. At least this way, you know that you truly did love someone and it wasn’t just a temporary feeling, even if those feelings were not always returned.